Dr. Caroline Leaf writes:
“You cannot sit back and wait to be happy and healthy and have a great thought life; you have to make the choice to make this happen. You have to choose to get rid of the toxic and get back in alignment with God. You can be overwhelmed by every small setback in life, or you can be energized by the possibilities they bring.”
When you understand the fact that you control the world around you; you control everything in your life.
The world needs you to understand your magic. The world needs your superpower. And most importantly, you need and deserve to speak your truth and make incredible profit from doing what you love to do.
I’m not of the belief that we’re living in an age of spiritual destitution, but an age of spiritual awakening. Mothers are leading the charge in this awakening.
When my son was 15 months old, my former husband and I filed for divorce. Well, he filed, actually. It was a couple months before Christmas when we separated in 2016 and by Christmas Day, the papers were in my email inbox. I was desperately sad.
I packed up my son and moved to Austin Texas with my heart as broken as it’s ever been. Nobody knew why I left my sweet, small mountain town but I knew that in that moment, I needed to spiritually and financially get on my feet.
I’d learned the power of manifestation several years prior, but this was my greatest challenge to see if I could create magic out of mishap.
I was reborn when I finally convinced my mind that I was created to do something extraordinary and that I would make amazing money doing it.
Moms Wear Capes was born out of me choosing ME; and other women choosing themselves.
I carefully selected 30 of the most abundant Mom-Experts on the planet to guide women through Superwoman School in every aspect of life; including love and sexuality, anxiety-management, feminine and masculine energy balances, overcoming heartache, and, of course, building a conscious business.
My experts reminded remind me on camera every day that the key to their success was this: MINDSET. They all had trained their minds to believe in their cause, and to believe in the money that it would generate.
Money is a funny thing. People think it’s a piece of paper, a number on a bank statement, or a bar of gold.
It’s none of those things.
Money is energy.
Our Universe is infinitely abundant. Do you know what all those geniuses knew that I listed up above that I didn’t know until recently? They knew that money is YOURS to take. You have to believe.
Here’s how I changed my personal relationship with money.
Do these things every day for one week and watch the overflow of blessings enter your life!
1. Write Letters to Money
I began writing money letters. This was inspired by my friend and coach Jolie Dawn. Jolie coaches her students in the art of writing money letters. Here’s one of mine:
I’m so sorry I’ve been scared of our relationship.
I let everybody in my life tell me that I’m not good enough for you. I’ve heard that I come from a poor family in a poor town, and that I don’t deserve to be living like a rapper in Aspen.
I love my life and I love the home we’re creating together. One of my favorite things about you is that we create a life that affords me vacations any time I want, time to spend with my child, and more caviar than I can eat.
What we’re creating together helps me empower other women to appreciate you and build their dream lives.
I’m not scared of you anymore. I honor you and the gifts you give me every day.
Thank you for always being there when I’m in a bind; providing me the resources to have a wonderful staff whom I love, a beautiful apartment in downtown Aspen, a fancy car, more clothes than could fill ten closets, and the ability to travel around the world with my son.
I love that the closer we get, the more I bless my family. I love taking my friends on luxurious vacations and paying for their plane tickets. I love treating my family to nice things they couldn’t afford themselves.
I love being able to scale my businesses when you and I are creating together to bless more and more mothers every day.
Money, I’m sorry that my former partner told me I wasn’t worthy of you or that I didn’t know how to let you in my life.
I surrender to the Universe’s plan for me, and I know that involves a lot more time with you.
I promise to honor our relationship.
2. Be More Feminine…
We call in more money from a place of feminine receptivity.
My friend and coach Emily Rose teaches us in Superwoman School Module 1 Lesson 4 that in order to truly call in the money we want in our lives, we have to be MORE in our feminine.
This means surrendering to the flow of life, receiving openly the signs and miracles around you, and being mindful of the puzzle pieces that God puts in your path. I literally call in money when I need it: to the extent of having had checks show up in the mail for me when I was in startup mode and needed to pay my staff.
The best part of manifesting money in a place of female receptivity is that unlike the masculine, we do LESS to make more money in our feminine state. The masculine way of doing things is to do do do more more more.
Module 4 of Superwoman School focuses exclusively on how you can rest more in your feminine to live a happier, healthier, and wealthier life.
Sara Gustafson teaches all about this in Module 4 of Superwoman School. Understanding our feminine nature as Introspective, Compassionate, Nurturing, Intuitive, Creative, Synchronistic, Soft, and even Patient or Passive helps us creatively, patiently, and magically make more money by working smarter from a place of feminine nature versus masculine. My favorite part of the feminine energetic is the willingness to surrender.
Check out the list of masculine and feminine qualities from the list I’ve provided on your screen. Take one quality each day that you want to hone in and meditate for ten minutes on that quality. Create a mantra that embodies that quality and repeat it. Or simple think of the word, envision yourself embodying that quality, and see the vision more clearly as the minutes pass. What smells, sounds, or tastes are there in your vision? What are you wearing? Who is interacting with you. See yourself embodying these powerful feminine qualities.
3. Create A Vision Board…
One of my favorite quotes is The Buddha’s simple, “What you think, you become. What you feel, you attract. What you imagine, you create.”
In a pure salessense, how are you going to sell something you don’t believe in?
In a greater sense, are you attracting what you want in your life? If you want positivity, abundance, and money; are you thinking thoughts that attract those things to you?
If you focus on a point in the road while driving, your car will swerve in that direction. The same is true with our thoughts. If we think about success, money, and building our dream business; our lives will veer in that direction.
This exercise is best done by creating a vision board. Take pictures of the perfect house, wedding, vacation, puppy, plane, or retreat center that you want to build. Put it on a piece of cardboard and hang it up on your wall. Every day look at your vision board. Don’t be surprised when, like many people experience, you start to see these manifestations come to pass in your life!
You are pure Love. You are pure Creativity. You are Courageous. You are worthy of the life and business of your dreams.
Now let’s start creating it!
4. See The World As An Abundant, Friendly Place
When you see the world as a benevolent place, you see light where there used to be darkness.
You will tune into higher frequencies and vibrations than if you focused your heart and eyes on pain, disappointment, or fear.
Dr. Wayne Dyer says,
“…your world will be experienced from the higher frequencies… you’re receptive to a world that provides rather than restricts. You’ll see a world that wants you to be successful and abundant, rather than one that conspires against you.
5. Feel Gratitude
Develop an attitude of gratitude for all that manifests into your life.
Dr. Wayne Dyer encourages us in The Power of Intention to,
“Be thankful and filled with awe and appreciation, even if what you desire hasn’t arrived yet. Even the darkest days of your life are to be looked on with gratitude. Everything coming from Source is on purpose. Be thankful while empowering your reconnection to that form from which you and everything else originated.”